The following is an extract of the book The Optimistic Child (Martin Seligman, University of Pennsylvania) The Self Esteem Movement We were surprised by what we saw in the public schools, though we probably should not have been, because what we saw just reflects the way most American parents of the boomer vintage are now raising their children. Armies of American teachers, along with American parents, are straining to bolster children's self-esteem. That sounds innocuous enough, but the way they do it often erodes children's sense of worth. By emphasizing how a child feels , at the exense of what the child does - mastery, persistence, overcoming frustration and boredom, and meeting challenge - parents and teachers are making this generation of children more vulnerable to depression. Here is a smattering of what we saw in the Aemerican classrooms: "Building Self-Esteem with Koala-Roo" contains an exercise with "YOU ARE SPECIAL" written fourteen times on on...